How to Break Up Without Breaking Down: A Guide to Healing a Broken Heart
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How to Break Up Without Breaking Down: A Guide to Healing a Broken Heart

Heartbreak is part of life, but Stoic philosophy can guide us through it. Learn how to let go with grace, love without attachment, and reclaim your life after a breakup. This guide explores wisdom from Seneca, Epictetus, and Marcus Aurelius to help you heal, grow, and rise stronger after love ends. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery

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Why Individualism Fails: A Perspective on Connection and Purpose
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Why Individualism Fails: A Perspective on Connection and Purpose

Modern culture celebrates independence, but excessive individualism often leads to isolation and meaninglessness. This blog explores why the “self-made” myth fails and how Stoic philosophy—through thinkers like Seneca, Epictetus, and Marcus Aurelius—champions interconnectedness, gratitude, and community as keys to a fulfilled life. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery

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Facts  and  Feelings:  The Power  of  Objectivity
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Facts and Feelings: The Power of Objectivity

Discover the power of objectivity through Stoic wisdom. Learn how to separate facts from emotions, pause before reacting, and respond with clarity in life’s storms. Cultivate emotional resilience, improve difficult conversations, and regain control over your mind to find lasting peace and strength amid chaos. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery

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Why Am I Reacting Like This? Understanding Emotional Triggers and What to Do About Them
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Why Am I Reacting Like This? Understanding Emotional Triggers and What to Do About Them

Emotional triggers arise from old protective parts reacting to present-day stress. Understanding these IFS patterns — and practicing skills like grounding, curiosity, and nervous-system regulation — helps you respond instead of react. Learn how to work with your parts and build real emotional stability.

Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery

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Why  Kindness  Still  Matters  in  an  Age  of  Outrage
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Why Kindness Still Matters in an Age of Outrage

In a world fueled by outrage, is empathy a weakness—or our last hope? Explore empathy’s role in justice, civilization, and personal growth. Drawing on Stoic philosophy, historical examples, and modern critiques, it argues that empathy isn’t naive—it’s necessary for a functioning, humane society. Brian Granneman, MA, LMHC, CAP, CCTP — Naples Integrated Recovery.

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Voluntary Discomfort: Resistance Training for the Soul
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Voluntary Discomfort: Resistance Training for the Soul

Comfort may feel safe, but it’s secretly limiting your growth. In this deep dive into resistance, we explore how fear, discomfort, and hesitation are not signs of failure—but invitations to grow. Learn how embracing discomfort can train your nervous system, build resilience, and unlock the life you actually want. Brian Granneman, MA, LMHC, CAP, CCTP — Naples Integrated Recovery.

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How Your Smartphone hijacks and rewires the brain
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How Your Smartphone hijacks and rewires the brain

Smartphones have rewired childhood by replacing boredom, play, and real connection with overstimulation, comparison, and constant dopamine loops. Explore the developmental and emotional fallout and how parents can rebuild resilience, presence, and healthier habits. Brian Granneman, MA, LMHC, CAP, CCTP — Naples Integrated Recovery.

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Future  You:  How  to Bargain  with  the  Future to  Become  Your  Best  Self
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Future You: How to Bargain with the Future to Become Your Best Self

Future-self work helps you break patterns, make aligned choices, and reduce the gap between who you are and who you want to be. By imagining your future self clearly, practicing small daily shifts, and acting with purpose, you build integrity and long-term change.
Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery

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Self-Pity in Recovery: A Trauma-Informed Perspective
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Self-Pity in Recovery: A Trauma-Informed Perspective

Self-pity in recovery is often labeled a defect, but it’s frequently a protective response rooted in trauma. Healing requires compassion, accountability, and understanding the pain beneath the pattern—not shame. Real change comes from integration, not suppression.
Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery

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Consistency, Outrage, and Looking in the Mirror
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Consistency, Outrage, and Looking in the Mirror

Consistency in politics collapses when outrage is selective. People denounce “tyranny” only when it helps their side, ignoring the same behavior when it benefits their own group. A Stoic lens calls for accountability, steadiness, and holding principles above tribal loyalty.
Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery

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