Inside the Work: Rebuilding Connection Without Blame
Inside Work: Rebuilding Connection Without Blame - explore how couples can rebuild emotional safety and intimacy by shifting from blame to curiosity, accountability, and honest repair. Practical tools for navigating conflict, deepening trust, and restoring connection with empathy. Brian Granneman, LMHC, Naples Integrated Recovery.
The Psychology of Anger: How to Think Clearly When You’re upset
Learn evidence-based ways to manage anger, challenge rigid thinking, and regain control of your emotions using tools drawn from psychology and ancient wisdom. Explore practical strategies for emotional balance, resilience, and healthier relationships through effective anger management. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery
Turning Pain into Fuel Instead of Suffering
Amor Fati—the Stoic and Nietzschean concept of loving one’s fate—teaches us to embrace challenges, not just endure them. This mindset turns adversity into fuel for growth, helping us find meaning, resilience, and purpose in even the hardest experiences. Learn how to transform pain into power through radical acceptance. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery
Embracing Fate: My Journey of Surrender and Renewal
From losing a law enforcement career to building a thriving private practice, this memoir explores how Stoicism, Amor Fati, and surrender to life’s plan can transform suffering into peace. Through addiction recovery, career loss, and starting over, discover how embracing fate opens unexpected doors and leads to growth, healing, and purpose. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery
Why We Mistake Chemistry for Connection: The Near Miss, the Slot Machine, and Rewiring Desire
We mistake chaos for chemistry when our nervous system craves the “near miss” and the slot machine highs of unstable love. This article unpacks why we chase red flags, how our reward system gets rewired for chaos, and what it takes to retrain the brain so safety, trust, and steady connection feel just as powerful as the thrill of unpredictability. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery
Stop When the Bell Rings: A 1,500-Year-Old Mindfulness Trick for Modern Life
Adapt the ancient monastic bell practice—stopping mid-task at its toll—into a secular mindfulness habit. Learn how this centuries-old discipline can break autopilot, calm the nervous system, and help you live more intentionally, no religion required. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery
Finding Peace in a World on Fire
In the wake of Charlie Kirk’s death, online vitriol left me asking: not how to fix the world, but how to keep my own peace. By recognizing the poisons of ignorance, greed, and hatred—and practicing their antidotes of wisdom, gratitude, and loving kindness—I’ve found small ways to stay grounded in compassion, even in times of chaos. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery
The Neuroscience of Revenge, and Why Forgiveness Is a Real Brain Intervention
Explore the neuroscience of revenge and forgiveness—why humiliation triggers the brain’s pain and reward circuits, how dopamine fuels retaliation cravings, and why forgiveness is a brain-based intervention, not just a spiritual ideal. Learn a practical “Mental Court” technique to gain accountability without harm, reduce rumination, restore self-control, and protect your future. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery
Why Facts Don’t Change Minds — and What Stoicism Gets Right
A Stoic look at why people double down on beliefs when challenged, how ego fuels defensiveness, and how humility, curiosity, and self-examination create real openness to truth. A guide to reducing reactivity and strengthening clarity in a polarized world. — Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery
Kintsugi – Turning Life’s Cracks into Gold
Discover how the art of Kintsugi and the ancient philosophy of Stoicism teach us to embrace flaws, accept change, and transform life’s hardships into resilience. Learn how your personal “cracks” can become golden seams of wisdom, strength, and beauty—and why our imperfections make us who we are. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery

