Why “Forever” Doesn’t Work — and What Healthy Love Actually Looks Like
Impermanence shapes every relationship, identity, and stage of life. This article explores why clinging creates suffering, how to honor past versions of yourself without shame, and what it means to choose love and commitment in the present moment rather than chasing permanence.
Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery
Sitting with Uncertainty
Sitting with uncertainty explores why humans crave certainty, how the nervous system reacts to not-knowing, and why control often replaces truth. Drawing on Zen kōans, addiction recovery, and amor fati, this piece shows how meaning and clarity emerge when we stop resisting uncertainty. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery
Who’s Driving Your Car? — The Inner Parts That Hijack Your Reactions
A look at the inner “drivers” that hijack your reactions—anger, fear, shame, revenge—and how IFS helps you shift from parts-led chaos to grounded Self-leadership. Explores recovery identity, emotional protectors, and what it means to take the wheel of your life again. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery
How Attachment and the Nervous System Amplify Conflict — and When They’re Not the Problem
Intimate relationships activate the nervous system faster than logic. This article explains why partners trigger each other so intensely, how attachment patterns and negativity bias shape conflict, and why structure, repair, and reassurance—not insight alone—create real relational safety. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery
The Neuroscience of Suffering: Why Spiritual Principles Can Reduce Pain
A clear, grounded breakdown of why humans suffer, how resistance intensifies pain, and what actually reduces psychological distress. Covers the layers of suffering, grasping vs. avoidance, and the path to responding with clarity instead of reaction. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery.
Dopamine, Drive, and Why You Keep Doing What You Know Is Bad for You
Dopamine, motivation, and why people repeat habits they know are harmful. Covers craving loops, trauma-driven patterns, procrastination, burnout, and practical strategies to rebalance the nervous system and regain agency. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery.
The Legend of Zelda and Growth: Leveling Up Through Life’s Hardest Seasons
How Legend of Zelda mirrors real-life growth: dungeons as the hardest seasons, boss battles as breaking points that reshape you, companions who appear exactly when the chapter requires them, and side quests that give life meaning. A reminder that transformation comes from the journey—not arrival. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery.
When the Lizard Brain Hijacks an Otherwise Functional Adult
Hardwired reactivity hits first — the amygdala fires in about 12 milliseconds, long before the thinking brain comes online. That’s why even as a licensed, highly trained professional with a full private practice and a life built on responsibility, you can still get hijacked by instinct. The second arrow — the story you tell yourself — is where CBT, neurobiology, and vulnerability work intersect, helping you shift from reflexive reaction to grounded response.
Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery
The Raft: Outgrowing What Once Carried You
A reflection on outgrowing the structures that once held you together — recovery frameworks, identities, relationships, or belief systems — and learning to let go without shame. A grounded look at growth, differentiation, and honoring what carried you without staying confined to it.
Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery
Why People Stay Stuck: What Recovery Circles Often Miss
Explores why people stay stuck in recovery: emotional suppression, misdiagnosed mood issues, childhood disconnection, and the limits of peer-led programs. A deeper look at addiction, IFS, and rebuilding internal connection for lasting change. Brian Granneman, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, Naples Integrated Recovery